tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post2462876616907359834..comments2023-11-02T02:32:59.566-05:00Comments on The Heartbreak Diary: I Wish My Dead Husband Had.....Jill Schacterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11356054469112135057noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post-61495747360997841492013-05-23T06:27:28.829-05:002013-05-23T06:27:28.829-05:00If I could have expressed how I felt when I read t...If I could have expressed how I felt when I read this...ur words are exactly how I felt. My husband and I were together 7 yrs and married 4, well almost 4. He passed on Feb.6,2012 of colon cancer, he was only 35. From the time we were told he had the cancer and he passed was only 10 mnths. I watched as he took his very last breath and I can tell u that the feeling u felt in the pit of ur stomach is truly understood by me. As I held my loves hand,I held on to every ounce of love we had together. When he passed in front of my eyes, I lost it. I felt every single piece of me fall to the floor and shatter to a million pieces. The love we had was strong and today I have to believe its the only memory that keeps me going. Like u I search for answers, for comfort, for just one last moment with him. Time doesn't make anything easier, I don't think anything makes it easier except memories. Memories are what keep my husbands love and life alive for me. You don't have to "move on", just "KEEP MOVING".. Remember (as I have to) there are others who "do understand"PurpleDewWalkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14306992504774202431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post-80534698929355441972013-05-23T05:58:01.563-05:002013-05-23T05:58:01.563-05:00I came upon ur blog while searchn for some fathers...I came upon ur blog while searchn for some fathers day poems for my husband who passed Feb. 2012 of colon cancer, he was only 35. I'd just like to say after reading your story, I and so many people out there could benifit from ur bookPurpleDewWalkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14306992504774202431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post-92188378838677972832012-07-02T01:04:11.574-05:002012-07-02T01:04:11.574-05:00These are exactly what keep me up at night-- griev...These are exactly what keep me up at night-- grieving & crying my eyes out. Seeing it all laid out in front of me, in your words, has literally brought me to tears & brought on that terrible ache in the pit of my stomache. That nauseating, hollow feeling that comes with this intense mourning-- I think few people understand it... When will it end?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post-28134211551790984292012-01-11T16:22:32.142-06:002012-01-11T16:22:32.142-06:00Hi Jill
I just spotted this one. I love it! Had...Hi Jill<br /><br />I just spotted this one. I love it! Had to laugh because with 2 kids I could really really relate.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30128583.post-41118175759496116382011-01-28T17:40:41.795-06:002011-01-28T17:40:41.795-06:00I sure wish we all had a copy of this book. I sur...I sure wish we all had a copy of this book. I sure could use my husband's advice and opinion on so many subjects, but I can only make my best guess as to what he would say. I'm almost tempted to start to write down stuff for my sons in case I'm not around for as long as I'd like to be. As we know, life is what happens when you're making other plans. What a gift it would be to have something like that written by loved ones who have left us. I think I'll add that to my long to do list!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743446066024389563noreply@blogger.com